
Friday, December 19, 2008
A Positive Outcome of a Negative Economy

Thursday, December 18, 2008
Literally Thousands!
- 4 Bedrooms
- Master on main
- Two door garage on the side
- Bonus Room
- Open floorplan w/ kitchen that allows the cook a view into the family room
- Screened porch
- Front porch big enough for rocking chairs
- Spacious laundry room
- Two sinks in the master bathroom
- Built-in computer area or a study
- Self-Cleaning (just seeing if you're paying attention)
After months of looking in houses (sorry realtors, we were just checking out the floorplan) we came up with one that we both like. We plan to make many modifications. First we'll add screen to the porch on back of house. There will not be a porch behind the master bedroom. It will be enclosed as part of the house and called a "sitting area". We plan to make it a nursery until our final child is in his/her own bed upstairs though. This should save us some trips up and down those steps. In the "hearth room" we're editing out the fire place, and it will be a formal dining room. However, we plan to eat in that room a lot, because as you can see there is no "breakfast area". So it may be a little more like a "casual dining room". Finally, the garage doors will be on the side of the house, and the front will have windows where the garage door is now. At first, we thought the bonus room may go unfinished because of budget limitations. But, the one builder we talked to so far said that it would be within our budget to go ahead and finish it. Great News!
Since I am an analytical person, and by no means visual; I wanted to see the floor plan in person. Can you believe that we found the exact plan was built right here in the Spartanburg. We went and looked in it, and it seemed perfect. I will admit, I felt unworthy of the master suite. Honestly, who needs that much space just to sleep in?? JC Penney couldn't fill up that closet. It's like the size of our current house. It will be great though. I can imagine our kids "camping out" in Mom and Dad's room sometimes, just like I did when I was a boy!!
We're both getting excited now! We were told we needed to start meeting with builders about a year out... So we did just that. Our first meeting was on 12/16/08 and was with "Builder A". More about him in my next post.
Until then, here's the plan:

Tuesday, December 16, 2008
For Starters

Let me first bring you up-to-date on where we are… Stephanie (my wife) and I decided that we wanted our children to be born in the house that they eventually move out of when they have matured. We both have a desire to have a large family, of not only our own children, but also some adopted ones too. STOP THE PRESSES! Usually when I reveal that to people they give me the, “you’d better wait until you have one child, before you decide that you’re going to have four!!!” Well for those of you that had that as a first thought, let me tell you how I feel about life. God put me here to be a Dad and Stephanie here to be a Mom and teacher. This I know beyond any doubt. I love children and realize that there are challenges associated with them. However, I’ve never had a reward in my life that I didn’t have to work hard for to earn. My children will be my reward and I plan to put in a lot of hard work. (Side-note: I am reminded of the gift Jesus gave us of our salvation… he did all the work for our sins, and we just accept him into our heart and we are invited into heaven...that is one reward that doesn’t seem to require much work at face value, but being a Christian in this day is not easy, keep the faith everyone)
Knowing the brevity of life and that we weren’t getting any younger, Stephanie and I decided to develop some life goals. In fact, we mapped out the next 20 years of our life in pretty great detail. I can tell you that we have already had to make some adjustments to those aspirations, but the point of our goals is to keep us on the same page and give us a general idea of where we are and where we’re going.One of our goals is to have a house that is big enough for lots of children. While we didn’t know where we would build, we did know that if we planned to have a big family we would definitely need to stay in Spartanburg because we are both blessed with families who we feel certain will help us when we need it.