For Starters

This is the first post in a blog that I plan to use to document the building of our house. I decided to write this blog because of a personality test I took that revealed that I am a private person. This test was administered by the esteemed folks at facebook, so I have complete confidence in its accuracy. :)~ So I am going to publicize this experience in my life to try and become a less private person.

Let me first bring you up-to-date on where we are… Stephanie (my wife) and I decided that we wanted our children to be born in the house that they eventually move out of when they have matured. We both have a desire to have a large family, of not only our own children, but also some adopted ones too. STOP THE PRESSES! Usually when I reveal that to people they give me the, “you’d better wait until you have one child, before you decide that you’re going to have four!!!” Well for those of you that had that as a first thought, let me tell you how I feel about life. God put me here to be a Dad and Stephanie here to be a Mom and teacher. This I know beyond any doubt. I love children and realize that there are challenges associated with them. However, I’ve never had a reward in my life that I didn’t have to work hard for to earn. My children will be my reward and I plan to put in a lot of hard work. (Side-note: I am reminded of the gift Jesus gave us of our salvation… he did all the work for our sins, and we just accept him into our heart and we are invited into heaven...that is one reward that doesn’t seem to require much work at face value, but being a Christian in this day is not easy, keep the faith everyone)

Knowing the brevity of life and that we weren’t getting any younger, Stephanie and I decided to develop some life goals. In fact, we mapped out the next 20 years of our life in pretty great detail. I can tell you that we have already had to make some adjustments to those aspirations, but the point of our goals is to keep us on the same page and give us a general idea of where we are and where we’re going.One of our goals is to have a house that is big enough for lots of children. While we didn’t know where we would build, we did know that if we planned to have a big family we would definitely need to stay in Spartanburg because we are both blessed with families who we feel certain will help us when we need it.

Starting in late 2006 we began to look at different subdivisions. We focused on Boiling Springs, Inman, and Chesnee. We thought about Cobblestone, Woodfin Ridge, Park Preserve, and Sterling Estates, but kept coming back to a subdivision named North Harbor. We took my Dad and showed him the lot we had been eyeing in early 2007. He liked the looks of it and the lake and mountain view, but encouraged me not to rush. This was before the market crashed and real estate was definitely in a seller’s market phase. Dad was right, we needed to wait, and perhaps look at even more options. So that we did…we waited and looked, but nothing seemed right. A year later in October of 2008, I was online and checked up on good old Lot #9 in North Harbour as I did just about once a month, and was so excited when I saw a new and significantly reduced price! Was this a typo? NO! I called the realtor who informed me that the seller was from California and had given up hope on ever moving to SC. Housing there was at a standstill and he was certain his home would not sell for many years to come. He needed to get this land off his hands and as such, he reduced the price. I consulted with my Dad once again, who shared my excitement, although his was more subdued. He told me to go for it, that he believed in me and that Stephanie and I have done well so far, and he knows beyond doubt that we can handle this. After some further price negotiating and fun with SC DHEC getting clearance for a septic system, we went to the realtor’s office to sign a buy-sell agreement.

It was at this point we decided we should tell our families (beyond my Dad, who already knew because I rely on his counsel and opinions before making any decision). We took Stephanie’s parents to our lot in mid-November. As we pulled into the neighborhood full of 2700+ Ft2 homes, I felt tension in the car. The comments were not very positive. I think that her Dad cares for Stephanie deeply and doesn’t want her to get in over her head or bite off more than she can chew when it comes to housing. I can assure him that while sometimes Stephanie Blanton bites off more than I ever would, she amazes me with the ability to chew each morsel with unwavering dedication. She is super human. I want both her parents to know one thing…. I will take care of your daughter. I love her and she will NEVER have to worry about whether or not a house payment can be made. NEVER.

We would go on to close in early December 2008… which brings us to where we are now. Deciding what house to build when to build it and who should build it!